Every man I’ve loved
is either a car crash or a
hurricane –

I could whisper which
is which, but the
results were the same:
whiplash, shattered windows,
splintered palms, grab
all I can carry and get the fuck
out, board up the windows,
hide out in the hope
my pen might just heal me.

I have stopped zero crashes,
convinced zero hurricanes to
calm themselves into some
summer breeze, and

crunched numbers and
bruises withstanding, I’ve not
wasted an ounce of my
love, unearthed magic in
my wounds’ animal edges,
my spirit a constant
gardener, tendering and
tamping hope into the earth.

I may need to cancel, I sigh, there’s
homework, there’s a messy apartment,
and you tell me it’s cool, you’ll work
too, and for hours, we do,
headphones in, laptops up,
awash in lamplight and the
wild notion that my company’s
worth wanting even on
nights like this one.

Hop a Wednesday train to see you
at work, and it’s busy, we can’t
say much, but you light up
when I wander in, and
the journey’s worthwhile,
text dumb jokes your way on
the way back home.

I make dinner and you snap
a photo before eating, unknowingly
rinsing a wound left by some man
you’ve never met, and,
forgotten ingredient, you
run out, twice, swear that
you’re happy to do it,
and we settle in and watch
comfort TV and your
laughter fills the room.

I’m so glad that you’re here, now,
though I’m hesitant to name it,
still recoiling from scars and
the idea I must’ve earned them,
look up and your face is a sea
of stars, smiling, touching,
and it’s easy, finally easy,
to exhale.

The days stack up like
dirty plates, countertop tower
unwieldy, keep my hands gentle
or face the tumbling crash,
so many of my poems about
you were about broken glass,
an omen I willfully ignored,
and I still can’t get the taste
out of my mouth –

There are spots in the city I
still find it hard to breathe,
there on 14th Street, where
you yelled at me until I broke,
the story that traveled the
world, Michael lost
his cool, down the subway
steps, where you told me
in a voice I can’t unhear
I am impossible to love.

Old wounds have a way of aching
with the weather, some
glasses spilling shards only
flesh can find, you
transparent, fragile thing,
but I’ll tell you, I know it:

I know my love is a sun
breaking through the
cloud cover, watched it
warm you to the bone,
keep you company and starve
your constant loneliness, I know
you ache for it, and
can’t bring myself
to light even a corner of
the rooms you run to,
drug-numbed and desperate.

I’d say it’s all love, but
it isn’t, it wasn’t, so I
play sweet music at the
kitchen sink, hum along as
I rinse old things free,
toss away the splinters that
make themselves known, and
close my eyes, let myself
conjure your face, the one you
made in those rare moments I
had you, and wish you
someone possible.

By the sun, I know time has swept
new flesh across forgotten wounds,
but a poet is unpracticed in the art
of forgetting, all the stories somatic,
memory staining its way through
the armor, gossamer, painting
the bones crimson, indigo, so

I turn down my headphones,
think of the things I didn’t
have the nerve to say
when I was surviving you,
the loneliest boy with the
sharpest bite, I hope that
the God you run from is
kinder than the one who
taught you to love, and

Still I hope
you will find your way,
free from the shrieking
silence of your own company, I
walk through a new city and watch
black and indigo press like ink into
the orange sky, glance at the
moon and marvel, we all share
the same one, only this, and
I forgive you, and I remember
the magenta rush of letting
myself want you, but also the
black eye you gave me –
you didn’t know how else
to leave.

Happy tears in my friend’s voice
over the phone, and, my God,
the earth and my soul both swell
in the relief of a rainfall, just
how long were we holding our breath,
anyway, feels so goddamn
good to rinse off.

The winter was dark and
was warm, my body bruised and
aching on the living room floor,
careful stretch, balancing act
between challenging and loving
this self, left the psych ward
in January and sobbed on
the train, please let there be
no funeral in March.

You paint my wrist pink and
blue, on a couch eight hundred miles
from the city, and we don’t say
it’s a miracle, but it is,
you and me, here, still
somehow a soft landing spot
for one another, eight hundred miles
later, still here.

I still see light in the sky at six,
and I exhale my relief, another
dark chapter behind me, and
I remember the glow that kept me
afloat, friends on couches and
phone calls for the bleak walks
home, and everything changes
but this heart stays the same,
tender, wanting, bruised, and bold,
and the light hangs on a bit longer.

The train barrels by, tossing sun
like lightning into my living room,
and I am out the door and onto
a footbridge, names in graffiti
as I descend a staircase rust red,
everyone wants their permanent
mark, and there we are, rooftop
corner, and what if I just
don’t dream of this anymore?

My childhood is Indiana summer,
chlorine skin and fresh-cut grass,
the sound of a marching band in
summer, nothing to do and
everything is possible anyway,
car-hood conversations through
a sunset rinsed blue, nobody fidgeting
cause they’ve got somewhere better to be.

The day is coming I will set this
down, close the chapter, I
won’t burn this city but I
won’t look back either, arrived
with the wisdom that nothing worth
loving will force you to hustle,
then tore off at a sprint, concrete
miles, the thunderous lights, spilling
out of bars at the sunrise, and
marveling at the blur.

I am my own constant company, I’ve
nursed every bruise and
scrape on this body, spun gold from
the rust cuts in my story, mined
pearls from the tears in my
sternum, painted meaning into
memories, a heavy gift, but
I’m well learned in the carrying.

There is nothing I have loved
I have ever known how to love halfway,
the city was a miracle even as it
broke my bones, and you were the
best friend I’ve ever known, whether
you ever meant to stay, I have
loved you, eyes unblinking, and this
is my ‘permanent mark,’ my name
in graffiti as you whisk right on
by, a love who doesn’t know
better than to love you in full.

My cat doesn’t tense in the moments I set
him down, because he knows I’ll make sure
his feet find soft landing, because I mean
for him to associate being held with the
promise of safety, and we delight in this
ease, tender man and orange tabby,
watching the train rip by through
the rain-specked glass.

A lover mocks me for the way I pace
in his kitchen, why are you like this, and
I laugh, and neither of us thinks about
how sad this is, how nervous I become in
every room where he controls the
temperature, and it goes on this way
until it doesn’t, and thank God it doesn’t.

My friend, over text, seems delighted
and surprised
when I meet his joke with warmth, and
I wonder where the hell I’ve been, feel
shame rinse down my spine as I
remember the energy I couldn’t escape,
why do I become so prickly whenever
I am healing, and am I worth loving
on the days I am not very lovable?

Wednesday evening, couch cartoons, and
I mention what I’m going through, hurry
through to the conclusion, and my friend tells me
no, you don’t have to do that, and
my throat catches, is there ever really
time for my broken bones to mend,
his eyes say yes, and I hope to believe them.

The city is hard
you don’t look like yourself
but my heart is so soft
I see glimmers of you
count my bruises in the mirror
there you are, there you are
crying in shaky breaths once you’ve gone
your laughter is home
feel my tears freeze en route to the bar

If I had tasted even a glimpse of the sting
how can a man hold all the stars in the sky
would I have made a home in these pages
and crumple inward like this
packed up a life, determined and ready,
I curse the concrete for scraping so coldly
and, fuck, the rush of vibrant everything
wish for everyone I’ve loved to be sheltered
even the deepest of cuts feel, somehow, novel

We story the setting, rather than vice versa,
for a few hours, you and I press pause
where else could anyone want
trading stories and pop-tab cans
this life is a wild ride, we shriek and we thrill
tuck you in beneath the violet galaxy
and, if we’re crying, nobody gives much notice
you whisper, aw, look at the stars,
arms and legs akimbo as we sweep through the sky.

My resting heart rate is 51, which
means my heart moves slower than
the second hand ticking against
a concrete wall, and maybe this
is why time seems to heal me
slower, always catching my
breath as I catch up to the page

Those sunflowers die in a vase on
the counter, yellow petals cast
as yesterday’s hopes, because
giving flowers is an act of
surrender – to the idea that
nothing lasts, to the choice to
be right here now

I pride myself on how smoothly
I can pack up a life, T-shirts
rolled in suitcases, the hotel room
already forgetting my warmth,
and I do get tired of going, I
do yearn to find home outside
the confines of my body, but
I am, in fact, home here, and
wherever I wander, home.

How’ve you been, someone asks,
how do I talk about healing, want
to say it’s been Hell,
how I’ve had to learn to
house fury and cradle bruises,
all the hundred conscious
steps back to a self, stringing up
lights and hoping the glow
warms me down to the bone,
but I opt for can’t complain and
a sip of my beer.

Back then, the world stopped and
we shattered, empty apartments, promised
never to take a thing for granted, and
oh, the honeymoon year, the
wild blur of color, saying yes and
figuring the rest out later,
reckless abandon and endless
nights, no wonder even the
cruelties felt like love.

You were the drugs in
your pocket, a few nights of
wonder in exchange for
so many bruising tomorrows,
the loneliest boy who taught me
some company is lonelier than being
alone.

What came next was a rerun, Sophomore
slump, boring story, stupid prizes,
nothing better to say, except
I found myself in the fallout, the
surprise gift of disaster – you take
the shit that matters and you run.

Can’t complain, but some wounds
always will, joints that swell in the
face of changing weather, whiplash
October, and I’m more or less
the same as always, tender and
wanting, defiant and gentle,
breaking into a run and
holding onto blue yesterdays.